Well, I won't argue what God does or does not think, because God doesn't make me privvy to that information. And I won't argue that the Bible was written by the hand of man, because that's been done to death.
I will argue that, no, absolutely not(!!!) are loving someone and thieving from someone the same thing. Nope. Not gonna buy that line for minute. When you steal from someone you deliberatley hurt someone. When you love a person of the same gender, you are not hurting anyone. The same thing??? As my neice would say, Puhleeeeeeeez!!!
However, as the owner of your home, you have the right to lay down the law about what does and does not go on in your home. When the same neice got in trouble and was questioned by the DEA in my home, I made it clear to them that guns were not allowed into my home under any circumstances and they could leave them in the car or question her on the sidewalk. Like anyone with a modicum of respect, they chose to leave their guns in the car. By the same token, I don't go into peoples' homes and have sex. But showing that kind of respect is one thing. Comparing my love for another man to crimes in which people are harmed is a whole other thing, and it offends me that you would make that comparison. You made the point that homosexuals CHOOSE to be homosexual. I don't think that's true, but given that as the starting point for debate, it works the same way. If someone is robbed, they are a victim, with no choice. If someone is offended that I have sex with a man, they are NOT being hurt in any way by that, and they are CHOOSING to be offended.
Like I said, I know you meant well. But your argument is full of holes. And it is more than condescending...it is more than insulting...it is more than arrogant to say that just because someone does not share YOUR beliefs that they do not have a personal relationship with God.