Well if the mom has longer hair, pony tail holders cuz who has time to do thier hair with a new baby.
A red wash cloth~ if the older one gets a cut they can clean it with the red cloth, and they don't notice the blood as much, there fore not as much fussing over little carapes.
Box of tissues, for when the baby cries so much, the parents start to cry even worse.
just a few ideas!
Jen