Hello ButterflyMan,
I like butterflies (although I don't know them by name like all you folks over to the butterfly board). When I was 24 I decided that I was ready to leave behind a bad situtation, I was ready to fly free, so to speak. So I got my first butterfly tattoo, and the rest is history. When I first started chatting online I came up with the nickname. The maiden I added on there because I wasn't married. The nickname has stuck with me ever since then. So when I joined here 2 years ago, I just used my nickname. lol.