I'm not trying to take anything away from Cathy's loss, I know how devastating it is to lose a part of you and she has my deepest sympathy,
but... the original date of this was last May. I understand it's almost 6 months but I'm afraid bumping this post might make it harder for her. How about starting a new one asking if there's anything we can do and offering our support?

Yes, I know I am a btch.
I have been a btch all my life. I am good at it.
It takes very little effort on my part, and I am used to it. Applying the same reasoning to you, I cannot understand your offense at being called stupid.
