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Last post 05-07-2008 7:05 PM by madallzac. 7 replies.
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  • 05-06-2008 8:25 PM

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    HELLO LADIES ...
     
    The reason for the note is simple ... I am needing all of you to please keep my daughter in prayer right now. I think that things are over between her & her boyfriend as they have not spoken since Saturday and when they did she was in tears the entire time because she misses him so much & well today when they spoke for no more then 5 minutes things were not good. She went to tell him at the end of the chat that she loved him ... all he said was " good bye " and then that was it.  So, later in the day she spoke with her friend that brought them together and he told her that he had spoken to him & he told him that " HE WANTS SOME SPACE " so that tells me that he is wanting to break things off ... so it just eats me up that all this time he kept telling her that he LOVED HER ... well if they are not meant to be ... then so be it !!  I just told her tonight that maybe it's for the best & she needs to distance herself for awhile from the computer ... so I am just asking that you keep her in prayer and keep this all between us please !!
     
    Love you all for being there for me right now because this is really hard for me too ... because I really thought that he was going to always be there for her ... but I guess that I was wrong ... so thanks much !! Heading to bed so see you later !!

  • 05-06-2008 9:51 PM In reply to

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    Hi Karen!  Hugs for both of you!  I know you probably need it, too!

     

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  • 05-06-2008 10:10 PM In reply to

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     I know she is hurting now but it is better now than later. If she had a child it would be so much worse. My heart goes out to her



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    Pat E

  • 05-07-2008 12:54 AM In reply to

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    Well ya know if it is ment to be then it will be , other wise she will be moving on. Actually my creepy highschool boyfriend did to me out of nowhere when I was 18. I thought I would die!!!!My parents took time off of work and everything to take me to lunch or what ever. They were so worried about me. And I was soo heart broken. Well then about a month and a half later I got a new boyfriend. Who i never really could get close to like my boyfriend since I was 15. Well wouldn't you know as soon as he got word that I was moning on with my life he came crawling back!!!!!So you know what I did.

    I married the creep. LOL! Let her know things happen for a reason At the time I thought I would die! But that was my only boyfriend, and breaking up mde me realize all of my mistakes too. And if they do not end up together, she will move on. Bur the pain of a break up is terrible!!!!!!!!!!!

    I however don't know how old they are.

    My dd age 13 had a "boyfriend" really just taling on the computer, he dumped her and she was a mess!! At 13!! Another boy liked her, old boyfriend came back and she tole him, Sorry you missed the boat! LOL Good for her.

    sometimes love stinks!!!!

    Jen

  • 05-07-2008 5:17 AM In reply to

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    You know, men are normally pretty darned insensitive & start at an early age.  I agree though that all things happen for a reason & we have to have faith that it all works out well in the long run.  Big hugs to your DD!

     

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  • 05-07-2008 5:57 AM In reply to

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  • 05-07-2008 10:57 AM In reply to

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    Karen...big hugs are yours!!  It's so hard on the mother to see her child hurting.  You can't change the boyfriend situation but you can give your daughter a smile.  The two of you should go out and shop, do lunch and laugh.  Or how about going to the movies or getting a chick flick on a DVD, pop popcorn, put on the pj's and escape to a fantasy world for a couple of hours.  Any of these can change her spirits, if only for a short time.  It'll be a start.

     

    nancy    

  • 05-07-2008 7:05 PM In reply to

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    Karen, I am so sorry for Kalyn. I thought something was wrong with her the other night but wasn't for sure. I hope they can work things out and if they can't then it wasn't meant to be.

    ((((hugs for you Kalyn))))

    Shelly
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