sstetzel:
I stir & I stir & I stir - then I let it sit & stir some more!
Without heat, stirring alone isn't going to help too much. Not knowing your particular recipe, the freezer jams I'm familiar with use boiling water for the pectin, and that will readily dissolve the sugar.
Kitchen Science: Sugar is more soluble in hot water than room temperature or cold water. It will dissolve faster as the temperature of the water increases, so the higher the water temperature, the higher the solubility rate. Thus more sugar will dissolve in boiling water because the molecules have more energy to move around and the heat breaks the chemical bonds of the molecular structure of each crystal.