we live in a MAJOR senior area here in AZ...so I know old....lol
and have noticed there are 2 kinds of old folks....
happy and content...life has been as planned and their kids and grandkids are decent and they are HAPPY and busy.....that is the big key...HAPPY....
then there are the other old crankies....nothing is good....life stinks for them and their kids have nothing to do with them...they are UNHAPPY all the time, complain about everything...they have to much time on their hands and don't make use of anything near them...
and around here there is so much to do....tennis, pickle ball, golf, bowling, baseball, cycling, cards and board games groups, clubs of all sorts, guided tours everywhere...great libraries, craft groups galore....
we bowl on fridays with an all senior group...and they are a hoot...several are into their 90's...we are the youngest...they had to take a "special" vote for my sister...she was ONLY 49 at the time....LOL...
I want to be the "happy" active adult....happy with my life....and frankly have never worried about the latest "fashions".....I wear what I wear....you are only as young as you feel!!!!!